Whenever I have been in an Muslim country, I have always noticed the hospitality offered to me as a traveler. When I visited Turkey, I assumed it was because I was with a tour group. In Palestine, it was more obvious. As I entered homes with my Palestinian Baptist friends, we were always greeted by the host (whether Muslim or Christian) with whatever food and drink they had readily available. This summer, my wife and I were completely unprepared for the generosity we experienced in Morocco visiting one of our former exchange daughters. Her family was so gracious that we hardly spent any money during our ten day visit as they provided food, accommodations, and entertainment!
Hospitality is an ancient concept. Both the Hebrew Bible and the Qur’an describe it in the positive, when Abraham welcomed travelers, unaware they were angels (Ge 18:1-8; Qur’an 11:69) and in the negative, when the men of Sodom wished to abuse these same angels disguised as travelers (Ge 19:4-10; Qur’an 11:78-79). It is no wonder, then, that the call to hospitality is found in Jewish, Christian, and Muslims scriptures. So what can a Christian learn from the Muslim understanding of hospitality? (Ali Zohery’s “Prophet Muhammad: the Hospitable” helped me find the stories of Muhammad in the Hadith.)
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Al-Bukhari tells us that Muhammad taught that one should give “a superior type of food” to a guest (traveler) for a night and a day, then continue to host them for three days with food. This is the duty of every person. Beyond that, any continuation of hospitality is an offering, an act of charity, not a duty. Muhammad also warned it was not permissible for a guest to stay to the point of critically impacting their host’s resources.
Notice how Muhammad emphasized the need to give the best (the “superior”) first. This is significant, as you are making a good first impression. His emphasis is not the same as the master of ceremonies at the wedding in Cana, who said people give the best wine first so their guests will not notice when the cheap stuff is served later—after they are inebriated (Jn 2:7-10). No, Muhammad is saying we give more than expected as a way to honor our guest. Whether given as charity or as hospitality due a visitor, you are to give your best—not “worthless things . . . you yourselves would only accept with closed eyes” (Qur’an 2:267). It is God’s gift to you, not your possession, so share it freely.
A second thing to notice is that Muhammad viewed going beyond the requirements of the culture or law as a voluntary act of charity. This charity reflected the mercy and grace of God, but it was not compulsory to do so. Jesus, however, made going above and beyond compulsory for his followers. “If anyone wants to sue you and take your shirt, hand over your coat as well. If anyone forces you to go one mile, go with them two miles. Give to the one who asks you, and do not turn away from the one who wants to borrow from you” (Mt 5:40-42). This was not just to the traveler, but even to the “evil person!” (Mt 5:39) It was a way to “love your enemies” (Mt 5:44) rather than to treat them as they were treating you (“eye for eye”—Mt 5:38).
According to Al-Bukhari, some of Muhammad’s followers once said to him that when they were traveling and entered a home, the hosts did not provide hospitality to them. They asked him, how should we handle this situation? If they show you hospitality as a guest should be treated, Muhammad said, accept it. If they do not provide for your needs, however, you should take “the right of the guest” from them. (You could forcibly demand hospitality, in other words.) This is a very different response from what Jesus instructed his disciples when he sent them out to the villages of the Galilee. “As you enter the home, give it your greeting. If the home is deserving, let your peace rest on it; if it is not, let your peace return to you. If anyone will not welcome you or listen to your words, leave that home or town and shake the dust off your feet. Truly I tell you, it will be more bearable for Sodom and Gomorrah on the day of judgment than for that town” (Mt 10:12-15). Even before you receive any hospitality, Jesus tells his followers, speak a blessing of peace upon the house. Then, if hospitality is shown, let the blessing remain. But if hospitality is not shown, Jesus’ disciples are not to demand it as a right. Instead, they are to simply to revoke the blessing pronounced on the home, shake the dust from their sandals, and trust God to judge the injustice in his own time.
Finally, Tirmidhi tells us someone asked Muhammad, “If I come to a man who gives me no entertainment or hospitality and he afterwards comes to me, shall I give him entertainment or treat him as he treated me?” Muhammad replied, “No, give him entertainment.” In other words, do not repay evil with evil but honor your duty as a representative of God. Similarly, Jesus said to do to others as we would want them to do to us (Mt 7:12). Not only is it the right way to treat those created in the Image of God, but Proverbs tells us, “If your enemy is hungry, give him food to eat; if he is thirsty, give him water to drink. In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head, and the Lord will reward you” (Pr 25:21-22). For Paul tells us we can never defeat evil with evil, but evil can only be conquered by good (Rom 12:9-21). Hospitality can turn an enemy into a friend.



